Page comments Setting limits with all the children the moment they show up really helps. Tell them what is expected (take turns, hands to yourself, work things out together, etc.) & what the consequences are if they are not adhered to. Ten years ago there were a pair of siblings who played with my children. All that summer they spit everywhere.....except in my home. As soon as they showed up, I told them that if either of them spit anywhere in my house, yard or sidewalk, they would be sent home and THEY would tell their mother why. I only had to do it once....they continued their spitting habit everywhere else...including their home. Sun, 29 Jul 2012 12:31:55 -0500 Marisol